node.exe port in use, cannot close task forced to restart PC

So basically I have a Gulp Task that runs with the Gulp Task Runner,  I am using browser sync to monitor file reloads.  It uses the port 3000.    I use to be able to close the task down, kill / restart / etc but now when I do it randomly it will be unable to terminate the node process and it complains about port 3000 being in use.

the second issue is that once that happens I can't goto the task manager and quit node.exe because it says 

"The operation could not be completed.   Acess Denied"

and if i use elevated command prompts or "process hacker" which is a better windows Task Manager it shows this for parent

Non-existent process (6580)

and this was the Gulp task that it started from PhpStorm

"C:\Program Files\nodejs\node.exe" C:\WRG_TFS\Dev\Projects\ClientContent\node_modules\gulp\bin\gulp.js --color --gulpfile C:\WRG_TFS\Dev\Projects\ClientContent\gulpfile.js default

Basically PHPStorm is failing to properly kill that node.exe task leaving it unable to close and a restart is the only way to terminate it.

Error: listen EADDRINUSE :::3000
at Object.exports._errnoException (util.js:1018:11)
at exports._exceptionWithHostPort (util.js:1041:20)
at Server._listen2 (net.js:1258:14)
at listen (net.js:1294:10)
at Server.listen (net.js:1390:5)
at module.exports.plugin (C:\WRG_TFS\Dev\Projects\ClientContent\node_modules\browser-sync\dist\server\index.js:27:25)
at Object.startServer [as fn] (C:\WRG_TFS\Dev\Projects\ClientContent\node_modules\browser-sync\dist\async.js:177:52)
at C:\WRG_TFS\Dev\Projects\ClientContent\node_modules\browser-sync\dist\browser-sync.js:120:14
at iterate (C:\WRG_TFS\Dev\Projects\ClientContent\node_modules\browser-sync\dist\utils.js:253:13)
at C:\WRG_TFS\Dev\Projects\ClientContent\node_modules\browser-sync\dist\utils.js:264:25

Process finished with exit code 1