Why does IntelliJ take a lot of time loading the same Maven based Java Project with Multiple Modules

is there anything that is being overlooked? is there a setting in Intellij Community Edition that I should be aware of 

it loads quite fast in all the other machines of my colleagues at work but not mine :( .

quite annoying

I have increased the heap size settings from 1200 to 4500 

-Xms128m
-Xmx4500m
-XX:ReservedCodeCacheSize=240m
-XX:+UseConcMarkSweepGC
-XX:SoftRefLRUPolicyMSPerMB=50
-ea
-Dsun.io.useCanonCaches=false
-Djava.net.preferIPv4Stack=true
-Djdk.http.auth.tunneling.disabledSchemes=""
-XX:+HeapDumpOnOutOfMemoryError
-XX:-OmitStackTraceInFastThrow

There should be something that I might be overlooking specific to IntelliJ Community Edition 2018.3

IntelliJ experts, Myself am a novice and just started using this tool, which I like very much but small things like these keep me awake