Idea 11.1.2 and 'Server is not connected. Press 'Deploy' to start deployment.' to default JBoss 6.1 configuration

Hello,
I am struggling with this unfamous problem. I had it previously with other versions of JBoss, but this time I can't solve it.
I am trying to deploy from IDEA the application to fresh and default JBoss 6.1 without any success. I am able to do this with JBoss 4.3.2.
I was looking around the web, this forum and YouTruck for any solution and I tried these:

• add -d64 option
• add -Djava.nio.channels.spi.SelectorProvider=sun.nio.ch.KQueueSelectorProvider option
• disable firewall
• add -b 0.0.0.0 option
• add to JAVA_OPTS option: PRESERVE_JAVA_OPTS=true
• restart laptop ;]

Unfortunatelly I am unable to deploy application at all.
Below are my startup informaction. I didn't change any JBoss configuration at all. Just tried to run it from IDEA.

Mac 10.7.4
IDEA 11.1.2
Java 1.6.0_33

/Users/lgr/Tools/misio-jboss-6.1.0/bin/run.sh -c jbossweb-standalone
[2012-07-24 03:59:42,553] Artifact netiacc-frontend:war: Server is not connected. Press 'Deploy' to start deployment.
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  JBoss Bootstrap Environment

  JBOSS_HOME: /Users/lgr/Tools/misio-jboss-6.1.0

  JAVA: /Library/Java/Home/bin/java

  JAVA_OPTS: -Djava.nio.channels.spi.SelectorProvider=sun.nio.ch.KQueueSelectorProvider -d64  -Dprogram.name=run.sh -Dlogging.configuration=file:/Users/lgr/Tools/misio-jboss-6.1.0/bin/logging.properties -Djava.library.path=/Users/lgr/Tools/misio-jboss-6.1.0/bin/native/lib64

  CLASSPATH: /Users/lgr/Tools/misio-jboss-6.1.0/bin/run.jar

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15:59:43,306 INFO  [AbstractJBossASServerBase] Server Configuration:

     JBOSS_HOME URL: file:/Users/lgr/Tools/misio-jboss-6.1.0/
     Bootstrap: $JBOSS_HOME/server/jbossweb-standalone/conf/bootstrap.xml
     Common Base: $JBOSS_HOME/common/
     Common Library: $JBOSS_HOME/common/lib/
     Server Name: jbossweb-standalone
     Server Base: $JBOSS_HOME/server/
     Server Library: $JBOSS_HOME/server/jbossweb-standalone/lib/
     Server Config: $JBOSS_HOME/server/jbossweb-standalone/conf/
     Server Home: $JBOSS_HOME/server/jbossweb-standalone/
     Server Data: $JBOSS_HOME/server/jbossweb-standalone/data/
     Server Log: $JBOSS_HOME/server/jbossweb-standalone/log/
     Server Temp: $JBOSS_HOME/server/jbossweb-standalone/tmp/

15:59:43,309 INFO  [AbstractServer] Starting: JBossAS [6.1.0.Final "Neo"]
15:59:44,802 INFO  [ServerInfo] Java version: 1.6.0_33,Apple Inc.
15:59:44,802 INFO  [ServerInfo] Java Runtime: Java(TM) SE Runtime Environment (build 1.6.0_33-b03-424-11M3720)
15:59:44,802 INFO  [ServerInfo] Java VM: Java HotSpot(TM) 64-Bit Server VM 20.8-b03-424,Apple Inc.
15:59:44,802 INFO  [ServerInfo] OS-System: Mac OS X 10.7.4,x86_64
15:59:44,804 INFO  [ServerInfo] VM arguments: -Djava.nio.channels.spi.SelectorProvider=sun.nio.ch.KQueueSelectorProvider -Dprogram.name=run.sh -Dlogging.configuration=file:/Users/lgr/Tools/misio-jboss-6.1.0/bin/logging.properties -Djava.library.path=/Users/lgr/Tools/misio-jboss-6.1.0/bin/native/lib64 -Djava.endorsed.dirs=/Users/lgr/Tools/misio-jboss-6.1.0/lib/endorsed
15:59:44,846 INFO  [JMXKernel] Legacy JMX core initialized
15:59:48,832 INFO  [AprLifecycleListener] The Apache Tomcat Native library which allows optimal performance in production environments was not found on the java.library.path: /Users/lgr/Tools/misio-jboss-6.1.0/bin/native/lib64
15:59:49,132 INFO  [JMXConnector] starting JMXConnector on host 127.0.0.1:1090
15:59:49,395 INFO  [WebService] Using RMI server codebase: http://127.0.0.1:8083/
15:59:49,514 INFO  [TomcatDeployment] deploy, ctxPath=/
15:59:49,720 INFO  [service] Removing bootstrap log handlers
15:59:49,787 INFO  [org.apache.coyote.http11.Http11Protocol] Starting Coyote HTTP/1.1 on http-127.0.0.1-8080
15:59:49,790 INFO  [org.apache.coyote.ajp.AjpProtocol] Starting Coyote AJP/1.3 on ajp-127.0.0.1-8009
15:59:49,790 INFO  [org.jboss.bootstrap.impl.base.server.AbstractServer] JBossAS [6.1.0.Final "Neo"] Started in 6s:477ms

Please help me to solve this problem, because I cannot simply do my work :/ And of course let me know what can I do to help you investigate it. Thank you.

UPDATE
I found out it doesn't work when I have chosen server instance 'standalone'. With 'default' I get 'Server is not connected. Press 'Deploy' to start deployment.' at the very beginning, but the application is deploying.
Can someone explain why is this happening?