Intellij plugin development - How to override any Intellij open file action?

Such a location of the new tab is handled by the FileEditorOpenOptions which belongs to a part of the internal API and cannot be modified 

Such a shame since the current internal implementation does not work as intended. 

Related. https://youtrack.jetbrains.com/issue/IDEA-233543

Seems there is a way to listen to when things open and close and then I guess you could have some actions triggered. 

MessageBus bus = project.getMessageBus();

MessageBusConnection connection = bus.connect();

connection.subscribe(FileEditorManagerListener.FILE_EDITOR_MANAGER, new FileEditorManagerListener() {
        @Override
        public void fileOpened(@NotNull FileEditorManager source, @NotNull VirtualFile file) {
                System.out.println("11111111111111111111111111");
        }

        @Override
        public void fileClosed(@NotNull FileEditorManager source, @NotNull VirtualFile file) {
                System.out.println("222222222222222222222222222");
        }
});