ghost breakpoints when debugging javascript

I am using intelliJ ultimate to debug an enterprise javascript/typescript application.  I set a breakpoint and it works fine.  However, if I click the breakpoints again to remove it, the debugger still stops at that breakpoint.  I usually have to restart the debug session and chrome to get the breakpoints to go away.  

I know that chrome dev-tools COMPLETELY ruined their breakpoint user experience in recent releases. This may be a side-effect.  Is there a way to get the breakpoints to go away.  I'm using 2020.2.3 on mac OS-x but have seen the same behavior on Windows 10.

thanks